Montessori vs. Open Play: What’s Best for Your Child?
As a mom of two, I’ve gone down more than my fair share of parenting rabbit holes. Sleep training debates, snack philosophies, school choices—you name it. And somewhere along the way, I stumbled onto one of the big ones: Montessori vs. open play.
Spoiler alert: both have value. And the best choice? Might just be a mix of the two.
What Is Montessori Play?
Montessori play is guided by a philosophy that kids thrive when they can learn through doing, using real-world, hands-on activities. Think:
Pouring water from a real pitcher into a cup.
Sorting objects by size or color.
Using wooden puzzles and tactile materials.
It’s intentional, structured, and encourages independence. Kids are free to choose their activities, but the options are thoughtfully prepared to help them develop specific skills.
What Is Open Play?
Open play is more of a “sky’s the limit” approach. The goal is to let kids explore, imagine, and create without a fixed outcome in mind. This can look like:
Turning a cardboard box into a spaceship.
Playing “restaurant” with friends.
Climbing, sliding, or pretending to be superheroes on the playground.
It’s about movement, creativity, and following curiosity wherever it leads.
The Benefits of Montessori Play
✅ Builds fine motor skills and coordination.
✅ Fosters independence and confidence.
✅ Helps kids master real-life skills.
✅ Encourages focus and problem-solving.
The Benefits of Open Play
✅ Boosts creativity and imagination.
✅ Builds social and emotional skills through teamwork and negotiation.
✅ Promotes physical activity and gross motor development.
✅ Reduces stress and gives kids a healthy outlet for big feelings.
Why We Believe in Both
At Maeve & Rayne, we see the value in both approaches. Montessori-style play helps kids practice important life skills in a purposeful way, while open play gives them the freedom to be silly, adventurous, and wildly creative.
Kids need moments of focus and moments of freedom. Structure teaches discipline, but unstructured play teaches adaptability. Together, they help raise curious, capable, and confident humans.
So, Montessori or open play?
The truth is, it doesn’t have to be a battle. Sometimes, the best approach is letting your child enjoy the benefits of both worlds—structured skill-building and joyful, unstructured exploration.
And if you ever need a place where they can have a bit of both? You know where to find us. 💛
♥️ Playfully yours, your mom-friend in fun, Lynne
